SweetiePie said:
You can ignore them but they won't go away. First of all we didn't have a choice whether we wanted to be on Trip Advisor or not, and there is no way to opt out of it; although I hear you can be kicked off of it. Where do I sign up?
Forgot to mention that the way to get kicked off TA is to consistently & flagrantly post your own reviews of your own place. TA will warn you, then they will block reviews from being posted. But they do leave behind a message that the reason you were removed was for messing with the system..
I have a hate/hate relationship with TA. All but 2 of my reviews (57) are wonderful. I resent having to deal with TA at all, but as stated before, it's not going anywhere and this social media web 2.0 seems to be here to stay. So, you must adapt. My problem with it is that guests sometimes try to threaten you with bad reviews if you stick to your policies and they don't like it. That is why I even have those 2 bad reviews...I refuse to run my business out of fear of a bad review. By the way, those 2 bad reviews were totally made up by the guests. But I just deal with it.
Has anyone else set up a computer for the guests to use? I think I am being penalized by TA because they think I'm sending in my own reviews. The last several reviews I've seen or told by my guests they did here have not posted and it's been over a month. I don't know this for sure, but it seems like TA's system is penalizing me for having the reviews come from the same IP address. Does anyone else have this problem?
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Threatened by guests?? Must be an American thing? Well, even so I would not allow 'blackmail', and that's what it is, to dictate my life. Sweetie pie says other countries are upset. Sure, people are human but what I meant was that this is not being discussed on any Canadian or UK boards I subscribe to. Yes, they know about TA, yes they get reviews and yes, some even solicit reviews. But...they do not have tails in knots over it. TA really doesn't get a mention on these boards. Seems that on this board it's a 'tempest in a teapot'. Or, as mentioned in my second statement here - is it an American thing? I hear you all talking about terrible things that happen in your inns that don't seem to happen in other countries .....
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You know, tho, given some of those UK reviews (and boy, oh boy, do they know how to slam a property in the UK) maybe the proprietors SHOULD spend a bit more time thinking about and acting on the reviews! I think we here in the US take these things to heart, take them personally, which is why they upset us and we talk about them. We, more so than any other culture I've seen, WANT people to like us. Other people don't care. In Paris they didn't care if I liked them. In Dublin they didn't care if I liked them. In Nova Scotia they didn't care if I liked them. In Bermuda, well, you get the idea. When I go to Italy, I'll find out if they care if I like them, but I really think they won't care a lire.
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