When I go to antique stores I see juice glasses and think to myself I wish people would serve me just that much juice. That is all I want or need. We do drink and eat so much more that we used to. Think of Cokes that were in 6 oz bottles when we were little. That was a serving now a 12 oz can is a serving. I only want half a can and my husband cannot seem to get I just don't want to drink it all..
When I go to antique stores I see juice glasses and think to myself I wish people would serve me just that much juice. That is all I want or need.
That is why I just put pitchers on the table and serve "family style". Take as much or as little as you want or take a little and come back for seconds. Nothing embarrasses me more that to be out with someone who fills a plate at a buffet and then barely eats it and the guest who does that makes me cringe but that is rare. Big eaters make me feel good and I am not offended by small eaters - it might mean they did not like it but more likely is just that they do not eat much.
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Over the years I've learned to take tastes of food at buffets. If I do not enjoy that food, or think I've eaten better, I simply leave the food on the plate. I do not worry about "the starving children in India," I probably left 1/2 my various desserts on my plate on Thanksgiving. The chocolate cake, that was larger than it should have been, didn't taste as good as I thought it should. One bite sufficed. The other desserts were good, but one bite satisfied my curiosity. (No, I'm not inferring that innkeepers serve bad food. My guests leave food on their plates as well.)
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