you can be friendly and still have class. the list has some great pointers. some are just not my style.
something i will never forget. some guests stayed with me three nights. they had come from a three night stay elsewhere and were heading north. that was a departure of hugs ... when they want hugs and you talk a bit before the guests leave.
they told me where they had stayed the nights before. that it was elegant and nice ... but they felt the innkeepers weren't 'real'. they couldn't warm up to them. and the housekeeping staff was not 'allowed' to speak to guests. can you imagine that? the woman in the couple was appalled. i am trying to remember what place that was. i wonder if that is widespread.
they wouldn't stay there again because conversation and banter was part of the b&b experience they craved. they returned to me the next year. i don't know if they went to my old place this year or not.
i love elegant places, too. but i also like warm and fuzzy.
you can't be all things to all people. not all guests would be receptive to my style. you have to find your style and go with that.
something i will never forget. some guests stayed with me three nights. they had come from a three night stay elsewhere and were heading north. that was a departure of hugs ... when they want hugs and you talk a bit before the guests leave.
they told me where they had stayed the nights before. that it was elegant and nice ... but they felt the innkeepers weren't 'real'. they couldn't warm up to them. and the housekeeping staff was not 'allowed' to speak to guests. can you imagine that? the woman in the couple was appalled. i am trying to remember what place that was. i wonder if that is widespread.
they wouldn't stay there again because conversation and banter was part of the b&b experience they craved. they returned to me the next year. i don't know if they went to my old place this year or not.
i love elegant places, too. but i also like warm and fuzzy.
you can't be all things to all people. not all guests would be receptive to my style. you have to find your style and go with that.