Tom
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My phone app has a smiley with the top of the head blowing off, but I can't find it on this site. So, ... OMG !!!
Your house, your rules. Hospitality is like a hand shake: you reach out, they reach out, you shake in the middle. You have absolutely every right to go in the room in the morning, empty trash, turn off heater, lights. Then, in late evening, go back, turn on a light and the heater. Put two cookies on a little plate on the bed to make it clear you are looking after them.
Innkeepers in the trade for more than a few years learn you have to be very comfortable setting and keeping rules for safety and sanity of you and your guests as a whole. Nobody gets too far out of line or the party stops being fun.
Your house, your rules. Hospitality is like a hand shake: you reach out, they reach out, you shake in the middle. You have absolutely every right to go in the room in the morning, empty trash, turn off heater, lights. Then, in late evening, go back, turn on a light and the heater. Put two cookies on a little plate on the bed to make it clear you are looking after them.
Innkeepers in the trade for more than a few years learn you have to be very comfortable setting and keeping rules for safety and sanity of you and your guests as a whole. Nobody gets too far out of line or the party stops being fun.