I feel bad for the real celiacs and other real issues who have to struggle with this daily. The fad dieters (and this is why we have so many GF and LF right now) are another story altogether. I get the modified wheat issue and more. Just eat what you want to eat, and don't order us around!.
When we can, I prefer to bore them to death with scrambled eggs. ;-)
We can't cook for fads, there are too many of them.
I know they are not telling the chefs at restaurants how to prepare the meals but there they can pick thru the menu to get what they want.
I don't like doing it but I do make them explain, in person, how bad their allergy is. No airborne particles? No contact? Ok if it's on the same table with their meal? Would gf bread put in the toaster make them ill?
No dairy? Does that mean butter? Cheese? Yogurt?
And when they start adding things back in I put it bluntly, "so it's not an allergy that will cause you serious pain or illness, it's a choice, correct?"
We've all had the guest with the restricted diet who then tells of the wonderful whatever they had for lunch and dinner that was loaded with the restricted food.
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