"I have not turned inside out"I speak to each guest when I take the reservation and have carefully worded my question about diet. "Do you have any dietary allergies? Nuts, dairy, gluten?" We do not jump through hoops for preferances and if a true Celiac wants a reservation I tell them that I can not guarantee that there will not be cross contamination, suggesting that they bring their own food or find a larger inn that can cater to their specific needs.
Upon check-in, DH asks again about food allergies.
We currently have a woman who does not like "eggs" but who will eat quiche, soufflé and the such. At booking I told her that it is near impossible for me to make a breakfast for a group of people without eggs, that we would do our best to try to meet her needs, and I suggested that she could always skip the hot entree and have the home-made yogurt and granola with fruit from the sideboard. In fact, she has cleaned her plate every morning with a smile. And I was not turned inside out trying to figure out if she would leave hungry..
That, to me, is the key. I do not want to tie myself up in knots concerning about breakfast, while at the same time, trying to be proactive and being able to deal with the gluten, allergy and dislikes. I see way too much angst here about people worrying about an upcoming mix of gluten-free, allergies and vegans. As I said a few times, my mantra for menu planning is eliminate, offer two choices and prepare trigger foods in separate stations.
I do not even want to thrust and parry about future guests. Too much worry.
Your point of cross contamination is significant though. I think that goes to ServSafe. Must clearly warn people about this possibility, I think, or else we are liable for a reaction.