mona
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I didn't take anyone else's post as a personal reflection at all. I only took her comment personally because she used my age as part of the reasoning I wouldn't succeed- which is something I find patronizing. And no, I do not apologize for that.Wanting to buy a business that breaks even is not abnormal and indicates nothing about my financial situation... Who would want to purchase something that is losing money?I may only know of one personally, but I have heard many many more stories. In fact we have a forum member here who recently lost her place.Your example is interesting- in that you've known of only one, who themselves up and left the property. I'd say that's not a typical situation and, generally, a terrible example.The only innkeepers I know who did this went bankrupt. They had several try the leasing...I assume they got a hefty down payment from them..but both of them had on "rose colored" glasses and neither lasted 2 months. One went bankrupt, the other--just left. I suspect she lost a good down payment as well. Then, the "Owners" themselves on some sort of visas, were unable to make their bills, time running out..so they just threw it to the wind and hightailed it out of the country leaving all their creditors behind. Bank has the property for sale now if you ever find some money.
Don't think you will find much around with this option. If you want to get into innkeeping take an aspiring class first and save some money. Sorry to say at 27 chances are slim to none if you don't have any income or support / health care etc from somewhere.
Take some time here and read through past threads. you will learn alot. Everyone here speaks the truth whether people like it or not but that is they way we are...take it from the voices of experience..
If you want to get into innkeeping take an aspiring class first and save some money. Sorry to say at 27 chances are slim to none if you don't have any income or support / health care etc from somewhere.
While I appreciate your "advice", I find you patronizing. Just because I'm 27, doesn't mean I don't have savings.
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Well you stated " a place to pay for itself" that makes me assume. Savings is a relative term. Our savings Paid cash for our B & B. If I sound patronizing it is because so many have come here asking questions and not liking the answers they get. We get tired of playing the game.
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If you are tired of newbies like myself, you certainly didn't have to reply to my post.
.answers given to questions are not to be taken as a personal reflection - we have no idea who or what you are. I know some 27 year olds who are set financially and mentally and some who at 40 still are not. Your questions are not being answered at the personal YOU, they are answered at the question you asked.mona said:Wanting to buy a business that breaks even is not abnormal and indicates nothing about my financial situation... Who would want to purchase something that is losing money?
If you are tired of newbies like myself, you certainly didn't have to reply to my post.
I have a 3-guestroom B & B and there is no way I would consider leasing it. I built this baby from scratch and put a lot of work and sweat into building a great reputation - something that could get ruined in one month if handled wrong.
Call me snarky if you wish, but just what profession allows you to just come in and "try it on for size"? For most professions (and trust me, innkeeping is a profession) you have to go through schooling or an internship or some sort of training. The only job I know of that you just learn by doing is being a Mother - no handbook there damn it!!
So just cool your jets and start over nicely. These folks are trying to help you and you will only get backs up by being disrespectful to anyone here - because everyone here is actually (or has been) in the trenches with the toilet brush and knows what the heck they are talking about.
We do give second chances - so ask your questions and be prepared for honest answers/
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There are different ways to answer questions, respond to people, give advice, etc. Many people gave me fantastic advice that I've absorbed and will give a lot of thought too. I appreciate and respect them for that.
I don't really feel a need or want of a second chance from you and I don't believe I said anything that requires me "start over nicely". But thanks for the offer...
