Madeleine
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They fall under almost all of the ones Joey mentioned! However, if they are standing in front of you and you cannot make them happy no matter what you do (you still need to be able to look yourself in the mirror, too) then they are DNB. If you can make the bad go away without feeling dirty about it, then you call them PITA's and give them another chance to be civil grownups on their next stay.Perhaps we need to define PITA better. I tell guests (not the term "pita" of course, that is privvy) but I tell guests "You know when you have a family gathering such as Thanksgiving or a Wedding and there is that one relative that you want to avoid? Well sometimes they go to B&B's."
That imo is a pita. You want to avoid them. For whatever reason, they vary. Just like the cousin or relative at the family reunion. The close-talker, the big-man small-man, the drama-queen, the train-wreck, the overly-medicated, the attention-seeker, etc.
....the constant complainer, the unreasonably picky, the condescending...Joey Bloggs said:The close-talker, the big-man small-man, the drama-queen, the train-wreck, the overly-medicated, the attention-seeker...
Question: where would you categorize someone who threatens a bad TA review if they don't get their way? DNB or PITA? Varies with the case, I guess, but certainly someone you wish would go elsewhere.
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Really, there are some guests who just need to throw their weight around to see what they can knock over. If you're like one of those inflatble punching bags we all had as kids, you bob & weave and every once in awhile you catch them off guard and get a good one in of your own. THEN the guest respects you and you never, ever have a whiff of trouble again and you find yourself, years down the road, having a good cry when you find out he died. And then you have another good cry when his widow comes to stay. And you have a good laugh over all the silliness at the same time.