Morticia
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I am so glad you were able to get away. Also glad you were able to explore some other B&B offerings.
#1 on my list is that if you don't meet any other innmates you will miss out on so much comradery. Meeting innmates and getting that hug is very valuable. Top.
Seeing their place makes a world of difference, you may finally "get it" when they talk about people pushing their greasy noses up against their innkeeper quarter windows. Oh! Now I see why they do that. Before you didn't, and it made no sense, keep them out, you say, what is wrong with YOUR guests, you say.
In reply to ICE:
#2 there is a FB group for innkeepers (prob more than a few of them in reality)
And yes you can create one any time you wish and invite and decline whomever you wish, and not have everything on the www public view. Or have people trashing you, have people being full on butt-heads and everyone else hand's tied to respond. Make it private and by invitation only.
Create one, invite people. moderate it, admin it or just have everyone equal. You will lose the search benefits of this forum, and the archiving, but you will gain some freedom, and probably some annoyance as well. You will also lose the spammers. The fakers. Those only here to sell or use your words for their next book or article..I know about those groups and I "joined" them. But it doesn't help me to know if they are on here.Temp Innsanity said:I am so glad you were able to get away. Also glad you were able to explore some other B&B offerings.
#1 on my list is that if you don't meet any other innmates you will miss out on so much comradery. Meeting innmates and getting that hug is very valuable. Top.
Seeing their place makes a world of difference, you may finally "get it" when they talk about people pushing their greasy noses up against their innkeeper quarter windows. Oh! Now I see why they do that. Before you didn't, and it made no sense, keep them out, you say, what is wrong with YOUR guests, you say.
In reply to ICE:
#2 there is a FB group for innkeepers (prob more than a few of them in reality)
And yes you can create one any time you wish and invite and decline whomever you wish, and not have everything on the www public view. Or have people trashing you, have people being full on butt-heads and everyone else hand's tied to respond. Make it private and by invitation only.
Create one, invite people. moderate it, admin it or just have everyone equal. You will lose the search benefits of this forum, and the archiving, but you will gain some freedom, and probably some annoyance as well. You will also lose the spammers. The fakers. Those only here to sell or use your words for their next book or article.
.I suppose you could just ask, on those groups. Those who don't mind telling, can. Those who do mind, won't. And there it lies.Ice said:I know about those groups and I "joined" them. But it doesn't help me to know if they are on here.
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I'm on there and here, but it doesn't help to know that without knowing who I really am on here.Arks said:I suppose you could just ask, on those groups. Those who don't mind telling, can. Those who do mind, won't. And there it lies.Ice said:I know about those groups and I "joined" them. But it doesn't help me to know if they are on here.
Right now there's a bit of a kerfuffle going on because not every innkeeper has their inn listed as their place of employment or that they are the owner on their personal page.
Some people think that means we're hiding something. I don't feel that way but I'm one of those people who tries to keep the inn and my personal life somewhat separate. I don't promote the inn on my personal page and I don't post all my family stuff on the inn page.