and
"Build your own experience"
Why can one person experience and interpret an event or place one way, and another person experience the exact same thing a completely different way?
It's because we all have different beliefs and expectations we built from a lifetime of decisions we made in response to past events to try to protect ourselves. These beliefs tint the lens we observe the world with, letting in only what matches with what we have left, and rejecting the rest.
You built the world you live in.
And you can change it.