I'm so grateful to see this topic - I'd been wondering how to bring it up (nothing like sweating the small stuff, hm?).
As an aspiring, I've had this on my mind. I find my daily garb now is a compromise between looking nice and being practical...I sold all my "professional" attire in a garage sale a few years ago. It seems to me that look works when you sit at a desk, but not in many other situations. I've had a quiet fear that as an innkeeper, looks might suddenly become more important than functionality. It sounds as if what works (for you all, anyway) a casual loook that allows you to do the work and also makes your guests feel comfortable. I'm glad to hear that.
I actually sewed up a bunch of aprons in preparation. It's something I do use now at home, and was hoping I wouldn't come off too.
sgirouard said:
I'm so grateful to see this topic - I'd been wondering how to bring it up (nothing like sweating the small stuff, hm?).
As an aspiring, I've had this on my mind. I find my daily garb now is a compromise between looking nice and being practical...I sold all my "professional" attire in a garage sale a few years ago. It seems to me that look works when you sit at a desk, but not in many other situations. I've had a quiet fear that as an innkeeper, looks might suddenly become more important than functionality. It sounds as if what works (for you all, anyway) a casual loook that allows you to do the work and also makes your guests feel comfortable. I'm glad to hear that.
I actually sewed up a bunch of aprons in preparation. It's something I do use now at home, and was hoping I wouldn't come off too
I have found the type of establishment as well as general niche/market for guests + interaction levels of the innkeepers have a lot to do with this. The super dressy innkeepers have staff and waltz around the inn. Those who have their fists in dough and flour on their cheeks are friendlier, welcoming, more accomodating and overall show more hospitality to their guests. This is of course, just my opinion.
If you paid $350-500 a night you would expect dressy, makeup, accessories + on the innkeeper(s). You wouldn't find them gardening in a tshirt and shorts.
But on the same token, I have guests who spend the most important night of their life together right here - their wedding night. I can't be cavalier and dress down when they are expecting something a bit more elegant. So go with your gut! You will find soon enough what works for YOU and your guests. The majority - of course,
you can't please all the people all the time.
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