My problem is would we be brutal enough, too brutal or too soft? etc?.
Jcam said:
My problem is would we be brutal enough, too brutal or too soft? etc?
If asked to provide reality checks, we'd be helpfully brutal. It's when someone doesn't want to know what we so assuredly want to tell them that the problems arise. ;-)
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Were it me I would want an honest opinion even if I didn't like the answer/opinion. Now to be honest I may not exactly follow the opinions given, I seek opinions from many and hopefully take the best of several added to my own ideas. In no way does that mean I don't appreciate/respect the opinions shared with me, but we're all different and face our own pressures, be them family or financial that may take us paths less than the ideal.
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JimBoone said:
Were it me I would want an honest opinion even if I didn't like the answer/opinion. Now to be honest I may not exactly follow the opinions given, I seek opinions from many and hopefully take the best of several added to my own ideas. In no way does that mean I don't appreciate/respect the opinions shared with me, but we're all different and face our own pressures, be them family or financial that may take us paths less than the ideal.
I agree. People are all talk. But not all people are all talk.
So when they talk it doesn't really help, but were they to provide real feedback and suggestions, then that is worth its weight in gold. That is why hashing stuff out here vs seeing a place in person, in action, makes all the difference.
When we went on the innkeeper road trip I saw inns in a new light. Sorry to use this again, but one inn was wayyyyy underselling a large balcony they had. They probably sold they have tv's in their rooms with equal weight. I thought before going there and knowing this innmate here for years prior... they have a balcony, okay, nice.
In person it was the entire length of the front of the house - second story with a live oak providing shade. Each room opened onto this balcony. There was a neat place or two or three to sit and read and enjoy morning or afternoon coffee. Now, a suggestion that went something like "I would give my left earlobe to have breakfast out here instead of downstairs in the dining room" was real, but for the innkeepers not doable with health and stairs to tackle.
Secondly, knowing this place offered this inncredible outside space for me trumped many of the other B&B's I saw listed in the area.
To put it simply, it was a selling point. A huge selling point. When you live and operate the inn you miss the forest through the trees many times. This is the value in having folks from out of the area, like your guests would be, as a fresh set of eyes.
There are other examples, but I spied with my little eyes more than what they had on their website and marketing. We are not like Hotel Impossible, ripping out drywall, but we can see it from our pov as innkeepers AND guests. We know it all costs money. But the example I shared above didn't cost a penny, it was just a different angle to focus on.
I like it. I am scared to do it here, but I like it.
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