We have a group of 12 here and lo and behold made scrumtious blueberry ricotta pancakes yesterday-half of them ate it and half left alot on their plate. Today we thought-ok we will do a egg bake-its delicious with eggs and three types cheeses it melts in your mouth-a little more than half ate it and most left stuff on their plate-I DONT GET IT! if you dont want breakfast TELL US the NIGHT BEFORE!
It just makes me so GRRRRRRRR when they say "Oh I'm good!?!?" and we have to either put in freezer or end up throwing it out....told hubbie tomorrow it will be french toast individually done so that we can do it as they want it....
I simply can't imagine having a group of 12 people who will all LOVE and FINISH what's put in front of them. Just won't happen.
Around here, we give options for breakfast so that those who love eggy dishes have something to choose from and those who like bready breakfasts will having something to choose from. I personally don't LIKE French Toast and would never order it in a restaurant....same for pancakes no matter how fancy you make them.
I'm not suggesting everyone do choices. Not at all. It works for us, but you do what works for you. But I think you just have to "let it go" when someone doesn't rave about their breakfast or finish it. Maybe they're on a diet. Maybe they just don't like ricotta, or blueberries, or pancakes. Maybe they're just not breakfast people. I mean, of course, I try to monitor to make sure they're okay with everything...and I have asked people if they just don't care for something and is there something else I can get you?
For myself, I try real hard not to get upset when I bring back plates that still have some food on them. I figure it they HAD eaten it all, I wouldn't feel like it had been wasted, so why do I feel like it's wasted when I throw it out?
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