Morticia
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We have had late arrivals who have driven right past our house to go to dinner because the had a reservation for 7 PM at the restaurant and 'didn't want to be late for dinner.'We don't have many late, late night check-ins, but we have TONS that never read their confirmation to know that check-in is 2-6 pm, and they think nothing of getting into town, having a full day, eating dinner and arriving here at 8 pm. Our first season here we waited for every single one of them and the burnout was just too much...we begin every day at 5:30 AM, by 6 pm we deserve to be done and to have some quiet time for ourselves and to eat our dinner without keeping one ear cocked to the phone or the doorbell. People just don't get this, they figure "It's your house, you'll be there won't you?"
I have absolutely no problems with people arriving after check-in time, it's just getting them to understand that they need to INFORM you that they will be late.
Last year our policy said check-in 2-6 pm, late check-ins must be pre-arranged by 5 pm on on the day you are arriving or else incur a $25 fee. That worked pretty well but was a lot to read, so now it just says check-in 2-6 pm, late arrivals must be pre-arranged and will incur a $25 fee. I have NEVER charged the fee...it's just a "scare tactic" to get them to give you a heads-up if they are going to be late. It's that whole "common courtesy" is not common, you have to give them a reason to let you know they're running late.
As with most policies, it penalizes the guests who are truly thoughtful...they call very worried that they will get charged, etc. But they were going to call you to tell you they'd be late anyway. When they call I make arrangements with them and tell them we will not charge any fee and to relax and take their time getting here. I make sure they have directions and then I leave them a note.
Now, do I still sit here and sweat and worry that they got in ok? Absolutely...and that's my issue and I'm working on it..
So, I get to wait up until 11 PM for them? Their reasoning was they KNEW someone would let them in at the B&B but they would lose their reservation at the restaurant.
I let them in. In my pajamas. And none too happy about it. No call, nothing. Why? Because we HAVE to be there, right? No, not right. How many B&B's have owners who leave at night? A lot more than I ever thought!