We don't do the dishes in the cottages, and like you DB, the guests wash them. I have never had a complaint about any of this; however, I will change the way "we do business" and make dang sure that every piece of china will be looked at before we let someone in.
She came to the office this morning and informed me that they would be leaving today, they didn't need the 4th night. I knew that to begin with, so it had nothing to do with the dirty plate.
She included some smarta$$ remark at her goodbye by saying " now you have half a day to bring the china up to par". All I could do was smile at her and show her the bird in my mind.
And may I add, I am somewhat of a germaphobe - I would never take anyone's word for it. I would wash every dish and piece of silverware before ever using it. But that's just me
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